<100 Days before we meet in India

We can't believe it’s less than 100 days until we get to hug you all in India! Below you will hopefully find what you need to know to start your countdown with us!
This page gives you a sneak peek at what’s ahead, including shopping recommendations, event previews, and a few heartfelt and useful updates, with more to come...

Outfit Planning – Where to Shop

We’ve had quite a few questions about what to wear, which is understandable—it’s not every day you’re invited to a palace wedding in India.

To make it easier, we’ve created a Wardrobe Planner with dress codes and visual inspiration for each event.

We warmly welcome our guests in both Indian and Western outfits. Whether you arrive in a lehenga, sherwani, gown or suit, we’ll be thrilled to see you. However, please avoid reds and whites as these are traditionally worn by the bride.

If you're planning to have something tailored in India, it’s good to know that:

Most shops offer tailoring with a turnaround of about 2-3 days
Bring references or inspiration photos—they help a lot
Mention your event dates as one day previous to when you need it

To help with shopping or renting, we’ve pulled together some trusted options, please find them at the bottom the page here.

Preparations are in full swing...

Father of the bride is in hardcore training - Why, you might wonder?

Well, it’s all in preparation for the Milni, a joyful Punjabi tradition where in the morning of the Anand Karaj, both families greet one another… and then attempt to lift each other in the air.

Yes, you read that right.
A garland is exchanged, a polite smile is offered—and then, boom: surprise deadlift.

Let’s just say Sandy’s dad has taken this seriously. There may or may not be weighted squats involved.

Who wins? We'll let the photos decide.

Meet the Venue

Noormahal — literally meaning “Palace of Light” lives up to its name in every way.
Blending Mughal and Rajputana elegance with modern warmth, it’s a palace that somehow feels both grand and welcoming—despite having chandeliers the size of baby elephants.

Family-run and full of heart, Noormahal is owned by Colonel Manbeer Choudhary and Mrs. Binny Choudhary, whose lineage traces back to Maharaja Ranjit Singh, fitting for our Punjabi bride.

The courtyards, the views, the food, just like when the groom proposed, it was an easy yes. This is where we wanted to bring everyone together, surrounded by light, laughter, and a little bit of royal flair.

So pack your shades and your best desi fits—because whether you’re lounging like a maharaja or tearing up the dance floor you’re in for a weekend to remember.

Wedding Fun Facts from Both Sides of the Aisle

A few fun traditions you might witness (and get roped into) during the celebrations:

1. The Great Shoe Heist

In North Indian weddings, the bride’s side steal the groom’s shoes during the ceremony and demand a ransom sum to return them.

The groom’s side tries to stop them—usually fails—and negotiations follow. Chaos, bargaining, and laughter guaranteed.

Curious what this looks like in action? This Bollywood song (anno 1994) sums it up better than words ever could.

2. Mehndi Magic

You’ll see intricate henna (mehndi) designs on the bride’s hands before the wedding—this isn’t just for looks. It’s said to bring good luck, deepen love, and protect against evil. Also, there will be mehndi artist during the Welcome lunch for any curious guests.

Bonus: Sandy’s mehendi may hide Asmir’s name. His job? Find it.

3. Bosnian Boom

In Asmir’s home village, it’s traditional to fire celebratory gunshots to announce a wedding—especially in the mountains where the sound carries.

Today, it’s a symbolic way of saying “something wonderful is happening here!”

Will there be one at our wedding? Not officially.

But… you never know with Bosnians.